Why Mrs. Santa Clause must be a Military Spouse

1. Mrs. Clause supports her spouse

Because she works tirelessly as part of "Team Clause" the general public defines her by his job. We military wives realize, though, she is so much more!

2. Mrs. Clause will move anywhere to be with Nick.

This is perhaps the most convincing evidence. Who else but a military spouse would follow her husband on assignment to the freezing North Pole?

3. Mrs. Clause makes the best of every situation.

Her generous and kind spirit makes even the coldest of places warm and inviting. She could do wonders with military housing!

4. Mrs. Clause worries about her husband's dangerous job.

When Santa is off flying around the globe, Mrs. Clause keeps her concerns and tears to herself. But we all know she has more than her fair share of gray hairs! Perhaps she has installed a Web cam on Santa's sleigh so she can see (if not actually hold) him on Christmas Eve.

5. Mrs. Clause keeps the home fires burning.

Imagine her leading a family support group meeting for residents of the North Pole. In turn, she's surrounded by love and goodwill.

6. Mrs. Clause understands that his mission is first priority.

Even when Santa is home, he is so busy at work that Mrs. Clause hardly sees him. Like all members of our special society of spouses, Mrs. Clause understands that, though she may be last on Santa's schedule, she is the first in his heart.

7. Mrs. Clause is frugal.

Santa's salary is not published, but I suspect Mrs. Clause clips coupons to support a household of hundreds of elves and eight reindeer (plus the newest addition, Rudolph). Lets not even start on her heating bill!

8. Mrs. Clause knows how to keep her mind occupied.

To stay busy, Mrs. Clause pitches in with the toy making (although it really is someone else's job), bakes hundreds of cookies (we all know how Santa feels about cookies) and volunteers her time (she is just as generous as her husband).

9. Mrs. Clause is underemployed.

To take her mind off of her husband's safety (and to help with the bills) Mrs. Clause probably has a paying job too. Although we know her for her kindness, Mrs. Clause is also a smart, independent self-starter. Since she has to work seasonally and values family life above all else, however, I doubt this job fully uses her considerable skills and training.

10. Mrs. Clause is married to a genuine hero.

For Mrs. Clause and military spouses alike it's worth all of the sacrifice to be married to someone you truly respect and admire.

Mrs. Clause assists Santa and encourages him in his meaningful work. Just as Santa performs his duty selflessly with an attitude that could be best described as... well, jolly, Mrs. Clause also knows how to accentuate the positive. Surely Mrs. Clause is one of us, part of the special breed called the military spouse.

Mr.Perfect

A man who can fulfill you spiritually and sexually. A man who can make you happy, become your true and the only soul mate and someone who will be honest and true to you. These are the qualities that would define Mr. Right. Now the question is in everybody's mind, where do we look for him and how long do we have to wait to f ind this soul mate? This is a very big planet and he could be anywhere. Maybe one day you will bump into him and from that point on, you know that this is the one. This is Mr. Right. Now thinking realistically, what are the chances of that happening? Pretty slim. Now you get discouraged and your mind set lowered your personal expectations of your soul mate, thinking that you will never find him or give up and live alone.

A lot of people turn to destiny for answer. What is destiny in our minds? Is it something that you know will happen without your attempt to do anything about it. Thinking that you will meet your Mr. Right simply because this is destiny or is it something that you need to work for very hard to achieve this kind of result.

The answer to this is this: effort determines destiny not destiny on its own.

Whatever you do in your life, where ever you go or whatever decisions you make will determine what your destiny will be. Simply sitting in your house will not make destiny find your Mr. Right. You need to contribute to this, put your own effort. Whatever happens after that, destiny will lead you into your path.

Once you meet your man and you fall in love with him, he will become the only one for you. You become attached to this person. This kind of attachment means that it is in your heart not destiny that makes a man into unique and irreplaceable partner for long time to come.